FeelingElephants

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I use the power of the internet to take human trafficking offline for my day job, but what I say here is mine, all mine.

Hey guys: I’m in Newsweek

I got interviewed last summer by a reporter working on an article for Newsweek and the article just came out. I’m not ok with everything in the article (and I did not say anything ominously) but it’s nice to be considered a valuable source of information on living in the Middle East.

Enjoy!

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Americans get more indirect the politer we are; Arabs do it differently.

While I was in Lebanon, I had dinner in Saida with two impressive women. Over snacks and crepes, we talked about a whole wide range of topics, but I finally brought up a question I’d been struggling with in nearly a week of speaking Arabic every day.

How can I be polite in Arabic?

At [...]

I’ll pick a cat over a castle, any day

I spent a not insignificant amount of my time in the Middle East petting cats. Cats are often present in the Arab countries I’ve visited: 2/3 the size of well-fed American housecoats, some stable balance between feral and tame, with the same amount of normal cat sociopathy I get a lot out of them.

It’s [...]

An open hand to hold God in.

On my trip to Lebanon I was privileged to hear the Ambassador from the Vatican–who my excellent book on the American Foreign Service calls the “nuncio of the Holy See”–speak to a group of high school students from schools run by the Al-Mukasad foundation.

The Pope was encouraging people to live in peace; nowhere [...]

The Souq in Saida, Lebanon

One of our short trips in Lebanon was to Saida, known historically as Sidon. It is by the Mediterranean and had great snacks.

It also has a souq, which has become a refugee camp for Palestinians and, more recently, for Syrians fleeing the engulfing violence of their homelands. It was a beautiful and disturbing place [...]